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Diva Stats
What I liked to be called: Lady Diva
Age: 36... 9/24/67
Orientation: Bisexual
Education: Currently in College p\t major: Psych
Height: 5 Feet, 3 inches
Size: Thick (between a size 14 and 16Plus US)
Bust: a 38 D
Religion: Pagan
Tattoos:3 ankle, upperarm,r shoulder
Piercings:3, navel, left niplle, labret (underlowerlip)
Current Slaves/Subs: 2 (online)
My current status is: Single
How long in the D/s lifestyle: 4years
How long doing Hypnosis: over 1 year
Lady Diva's Checklist

What I look for in a submissive

               A natural submissive is one who needs to submit in order to be happy and fulfilled in their life. They need to submit in areas other than just the sexual arena. Being a natural submissive has little or nothing to do with sex. This type of submissive can often be aggressive or submissive sexually, depending on what their Dominant desires at any given  time. They are at their best and feels the most content when they are making their dominant  happy, whether that entails having dinner prepared by 6 p.m., giving their dominant a  pedicure, or submitting to sexual bondage. I am not implying that a natural submissive  doesn't enjoy bondage or sensual pain, they may or may not; as I said, it is not always about  sex, it is about needing to please their partner in order to be fulfilled. This is the greatest  difference between the sexual submissive and the natural submissive.

 
NEEDS
I need to be Loved
I need to be trusted.

I need to trust you
I need to be in Control

I need to be Respected
I need to teach and lead

I need to be pampered

I need to be admired

I need space and freedom

I need to be accepted the way I am now.

!I need to be appreciated.

I need to be vitally important in your life.

I need to be sexually satisfied.

I need you to be strong and self confident.

Fetishes & Play
Hypnosis
Flogging
Spanking
Strap-on play
Bondage
Role-
play
Waxplay
Knifeplay (no cutting)

LIMITS
No blood (that is not mine) I'm a girl I bleed
No scat (hard limit)
No one under 18 (hard limit)
No animals (hard limit)

 

INTOLERANCE'S
Not understanding that I need time to myself and or have other things to do
Nagging me to use you after you have been told that I am busy!

Brattiness using bad behavior to push me to do what you want (spanking).

Asking to be punished
Not understanding that I can't be in Dom space all the time!
Nagging at me to change or criticizing

Assuming that I would switch for the right man
Meanness or bad attitude

Physical confrontations (hitting or putting hands on anyone in anger)

Thinks of yourself first

Slamming doors or throwing things

Eye rolling, hand in my face, screaming, saying shut up

Drinking and driving

Drugs
I thought that I wouldn't have to put this here, but more and more I am seeing the need for this to be said straight out
I AM A LADY!!!
I expect all men to act like gentlemen and women to be ladies as well
Being a sexually deviant is not reason to lose your manners
If you never had any to begin with please Don't bother me I am not interested!
   
 
Likes
Favorite Food~~ Jello sugarfree & Lambchops
Favorite T.V.  Show~~ "Charmed" "CSI"
Favorite Song~~One Caress and Judas and In Your Room by Depeche mode & Bring me to life ~Evanescence
Favorite Movie~~ "The Secretary" & "The Thomas Crown Affiar"
Favorite Color~~ Black/red/blue
Favorite Hobby~~collecting movies (dvd) & shoes
Favorite Book~~"IncubusDreams" by Laurell K. Hamilton
Favorite Web Site~~~ my own
Favorite Drinks~~COFFEE!Black Martini, Diet Cream soda ,Diet vanilla pepsi
Favorite Store~~The bodyshop